How To Lead To Success!

In this episode, Zef Zan, host of Creative Chat Cafe with cohost Tina Kadish, Health Coach at www.LifeIsIdeal.com and guest, Princess Bola Adelani, "Total Success Coach" at www.RoyalProclamations.com discuss "How to lead to success!" 

Discussions include:

• What is success?
  
• Qualities that can help you lead to success.
  
• Why it is so important that you become a leader that lead others to success and how to get there.
  

The Hangout

Success does not happen by accident, it takes hard work, real hard work. It’s not something that is achieved overnight. Often, success is driven by passion and commitment to what you love doing - day in, day out.

But how does one get there? And why is it so important that we all need to know how to lead to success? If you’re a business person, it becomes more important to learn how to lead others into becoming successful. 

“Practicing successful habits” yourself is just not enough because you may have to work with other people right? Maybe you’re the boss and you lead a team of people at work or in your business or, maybe you’re a business mentor or coach that helps other to become successful in what they do.

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The Conversation

ZEF: Tina, I know that you are also a certified Passions Test Facilitator and you use The Passions Test as a starting point in helping your clients achieve their health goals. From those test results, can you share any common qualities of a person -maybe ones that keep popping up in test results - that you have discovered that are helping individuals lead to success?

TINA: During my coaching clients, I discovered two qualities that will help individuals lead to success:

ONE - They must be committed to make a change, i.e. I want better health - what steps will they take to achieve better health, such as putting together an action plan with a deadline.

TWO - Having a positive attitude that they will achieve their goal. Every day having the belief that you will achieve the goal.

ZEF: How about you Princess Bola? In your years coaching as a “Total Success Coach”, what are some of the common qualities that you have discovered are helping individuals lead to success?

PRINCESS BOLA: Passion. IF you don’t love what you do, you will not excel at it neither will you be committed to it.  The place of our passion is the place of our strength. Passion is what drives us and keeps the fire alive and attracts others to us.

The other I would say is the perseverance. This is what I call staying power. “When the going gets tough the tough gets going”. We have to endure the very tough “bumps” that are sure to sure to show up on the road to success . Those who can persevere, ultimately win!

Our Tips!

We've discussed the qualities of how to lead to success but how do we get there?

Tina's tips:
Based on how she got started, here are two things that got her started to leading to success:

• Decision. Tina wanted to make a difference and asked herself  how she was going to accomplish her goals. When she was laid off from a training position that she loved, she asked herself what will she do next with her career? Tina decided that the she needed to start networking with like-minded people. She attended different networking events where she discovered “The Passion Test” tool.
• Raise the bar with people you associate with. She wanted to be successful and decided to hang around people who already “did it." Tina wanted to learn from these people whom she calls mentors. She would sought mentors or coaches who would empower, inspire, and teach her how to be successful in her business.

Princess Bola's tips:

• To lead to success, one must have a concrete plan with measurable steps. That plan must outline who you are and where you are going. “If you fail to plan, you plan to fail”. If you don’t have a plan of action, that’s just wishful thinking.
• It is equally important to have a coach and mentor that can help you create a strategic plan and hold you accountable to it.

Zef's tips:

• Commitment. When Zef started her own business, she learned from them on how to get committed to something that she's passionate about. Zef is passionate about people, and helping them build a successful business and live a  purposeful life. She learned how to  commit to a cause or people early on and when she makes a commitment, she follows through. 
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• Work and associate with winners, not losers! Zef says that this is the most important thing she learned from her mentors.  She says that you'd want to associate yourself with people with have the same positive attitude and who are equally as determined as you are.Of course, there will be times when you discover someone is not living up to your expectations – that is life! They might be dragging everyone else down but you can’t afford to be sentimental.  You have to be smart and cut your losses while you still can.

Your Hosts

Meet Zef Zan here!

TINA KADISH
www.LifeIsIdeal.com


"Tina Kadish is a Life and Health Coach at LifeIsIdeal.com. She is also a Certified Passion Test Facilitator. Tina offers personalized one-on-one coaching sessions, mentoring programs, and seminars that will enable you to gain clarity in your life."

PRINCESS BOLA ADELANI
www.RoyalProclamations.com

"Princess Bola Adelani, Total Success Coach, is America’s “Dream-Midwife, Spiritual Money Coach & Queen of Networking”. The mission of her Training and Development Firm, Royal Proclamations, is to equip Business Professionals and others with the “P.O.W.E.R. (Passion Opportunities Wisdom Experience Results) and Inspiration for TOTAL success”™. That is, success at work and in life."

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Zef found this picture on her Facebook feed and shared it during the show. 

ZEF: I don't know about you but I sure enjoy my sleep! And if becoming successful helps me get a good night's sleep then I want it! Plus, if we can help others to lead to success too, I think our souls will be much happier  - just like this quote in this picture!

ZEF: Why is it so important that we all know how to lead to success? 


PRINCESS BOLA: Leadership is about influence. So, without knowing how to positively influence others we will not succeed at work and in life. Life is all about relationships with people. We are all in the “people business." We have something to offer to people so, it is crucial to master the art of influencing, inspiring, and persuading others. Without it, we are “dead meat."

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Tina shared John Maxwell's book “Developing the Leader within You.” Notes from book and the content that inspires her:

"Leadership can be taught. We are not born leaders. The traits can be acquired. Link them up with desire and nothing can keep you from becoming a leader. Desire is very important and key to leading to success."